What Men Want In Lovemaking

Making love is not only for thin women. Unfortunately, many big beautiful women (bbw) who possess body image issues very often then also possess issues in intimate relationships. They believe men only desire women with perfect bodies. A man may not decline an opportunity to look at a typical "hot" woman passing by, but the ideal figure isn't sitting atop a man's wish list. You do not need the perfect figure to delight in awesome lovemaking, driving your man wild.

Here is what men truly desire from their loving women:

Passion. Men enjoy wildly passionate women, the more passionate the better. You can wow a man with red blooded, lusty intimacy every time, but a bored or distant attitude toward sex is no aphrodisiac. Love and desire are powerful arousers, much more crucial than just a body before the man. Men desire to be desired, long to be loved. Allowing your man to know that you are desire him, desire with a lusty passion will get them excited every time and make for zealous lovemaking.

Enthusiasm. Men need their women to be excited. Enthusiasm makes for positive energy, electric energy. Supply the bedroom with enthusiasm and excitement for passion to explode. Enthusiasm will skyrocket your lovemaking immediately.

Caring. Men want caring women. The male ego is pretty fragile and cannot take very much criticism; it is actually a good way to stop any passion in its tracks.

Women who are trying to perfect themselves tend to demand the same efforts from their lovers. Those demands or expectations are a sure passion killer. Instead, nurture the man with same care and comfort you would like to receive. Just be sure to be ready for the amazing caring responses you will receive while lovemaking.

Kindness. Kindness with patience is what men want. This may take some effort because there are times when women need patience and understanding from the man, like times of diet or times of the month. These "special" times of understanding can be hard for a man to understand. Simply put, men would like women offer them the same respect they reserve for their best friends. Men who are esteemed and provided kindness will be amazing, virile lovers.

Playfulness. Men like women to be whimsical and playful, to enjoy exploring erotically. Why would a man or woman want to be with somebody who is serious all the time, needing to get things perfect all the time? Intimacy is not about getting it just right or looking good, it is about enjoying each other in the most powerful way. The woman who's likes to try out new things in bed, willing to be a bit silly will enjoy immeasurable, intense lovemaking from her man.

Women are wrong to think that men do not desire intimacy. Nothing could be further from the truth. Men desire intimacy as women do; it is just that men do not want to talk about it. If the desire is for you to be closer on all levels with your man, give up trying to sculpt the perfect figure and focus on creating the perfect lovemaking atmosphere. By giving your man his desires, he will give you your desires intimacy, romance, and earthshaking lovemaking.